REASONS WHY THEERE ARE ALOTS OF BROKEN MARRIAGES TODAY

  REASONS WHY THEERE ARE ALOTS OF BROKEN MARRIAGES TODAY

11.     MARRYING SOMEONE THAT DOESN’T HAVE YOUR DESIRED QUALITIES: Most people marry with the impression that since a lady is beautiful/a guy is handsome and rich that’s all I need in a man and on getting to their home they discover that they are both of like the NORTH AND SOUTH POLE not agreeable in any ways, beliefs, morality even compatibility is lacking and this will firstly threaten their love. Another thing is virtue because not all ladies can be a wife  and not all guys can be a man

22.     THIRD PARTY: This is  the top of it a married man / woman should be a “ matured adult who is able to handle any situation with little or no help from a third party he/she should be able to make their own decisions”  because immediately a family matter is taken outside the home it becomes the nation’s affair and this can easily without notice crumble a home in no time, matters of the home are meant to be settled by the husband and wife only no third party place is provided because on marriage the both becomes one in all things and these two should be able to manage a situation no matter how tedious and tasking it may be.

33.   WOLVES IN SHEEP CLOTHING: Many married couples get home and meet another or a whole stranger compared to who they dated and got married to and “the reason of dating being to get to know themselves intimately” was not achieved so this is still another error in marriage. Imagine getting home to discover  you married a thief, prostitute, mentally unstable she/he snores  and you happen to hate snorers  or sleep- talkers  you will fell discourage is easier said than done after saying “ yes I do, in richer, in poorer , in health and sickness”  it’s difficult for the party involved also fake lifestyle put up by their partner’s  just to get their partners approval but on getting to find out that all were just an act, to please her and so the period of dating should correct this error know him/her to her period even if possible when she wears a pant and not her cold and hot period etc.

44.  SLACK IN DUTIES: Like I always say especially on the side of men after marriage they think okay we are now married no need for us going out again even once in a long while or during festive season and on the side of the woman with the intent that am already married so no need to dress to please again to look good and charming this is a common attitude of the black women and later you will still be the one complaining of your partner chasing other ladies? So in essence things done during the period of dating should be continued so as any of the individual not to feel indifferent.

ARTICLE BY: EHIJEH BRIGHT

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REASONS WHY MARRIED PEOPLE/SPOUSE ALWAYS CHEAT ON EACH OTHER

 REASONS WHY MARRIED PEOPLE/SPOUSE ALWAYS CHEAT ON EACH OTHER

1. LUST: This is one of the basics reasons why people cheat how can a married man for example having a beautiful and well endured wife still be lusting after another woman. Are they not both are they both not having the same body features shapes curve and edges? What is the different?  ” Like a saying will always say a cheater will always cheat” (No matter how clean you bath a pig it will still go back to the muds) so on my own point of view it’s what its inherent in the individual before marriage and like it’s been said charity begins at home same applies here the person involved has being engaging in this act before marriage so it’s the same character he/ she still exhibit in marriage/relationship.

2. TO KEEP UP TO DATE (THE TRENDING): Most persons engage in some fraud less activities because it the up and doing activity in town that is a very bad habit someone once said that before you enter a relationship you should be matured all wise you should be able to define your boundaries, limit, likes, dislike if at this time you are still tossed to and fro here and there I think you should retrace your steps and be a woman and man of your own.

3. LACK (MONEY, CHILD): Some people really don’t intend to cheat but due to lack they find themselves cheating maybe for money and child bearing the latter is common amongst Africans they can’t bear the thought and shame of not bearing children will be tempted to cheat and as they try it out sooner or later it then becomes a habit.

4. POOR SEX LIFE OF THE OTHER PATNER: This is the most important there is no marriage that there will be no sex, sex is very pleasurable and image someone who got married with the hope to have a lot of it but ended up being disappointed because of the inexperience of the other person will definitely look and desire to have a better and satisfied one and this will lead to cheating which was never intended.

5. FRIENDS AND FAMILY: This happens especially when the woman is ill-treated will little or no care and even sex starvation and if this be known to family and friends they may persuade her to cheat even giving her examples of those engaging in the act and the benefit and pointing out to her, her monster at home so if she is tired of bearing she may give up after all to “err is human and to forgive is divine”.

6.LACK OF LOVE AND APPRECIATION :There is a saying that “ appreciation is an  application for more” so no matter how small what  he/she does for you even if it’s  their responsibility always say thank you it make someone  fell  useful else they will fell  they are of no use to you and that you can do without them this  will then put a bridge in their heart . Never go out without kissing or telling your spouse I LOVE YOU EVEN THOUGH THEY KNOW IT ALREADY RE-ECHO IT THIS WILL ALWAYS REMIND THEM OF YOUR LOVE FOR THEM.

ARTICLE BY: EHIJEH BRIGHT

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