Saturday 21 April 2018

REASONS WHY THEERE ARE ALOTS OF BROKEN MARRIAGES TODAY



  REASONS WHY THEERE ARE ALOTS OF BROKEN MARRIAGES TODAY

11.     MARRYING SOMEONE THAT DOESN’T HAVE YOUR DESIRED QUALITIES: Most people marry with the impression that since a lady is beautiful/a guy is handsome and rich that’s all I need in a man and on getting to their home they discover that they are both of like the NORTH AND SOUTH POLE not agreeable in any ways, beliefs, morality even compatibility is lacking and this will firstly threaten their love. Another thing is virtue because not all ladies can be a wife  and not all guys can be a man
22.     THIRD PARTY: This is  the top of it a married man / woman should be a “ matured adult who is able to handle any situation with little or no help from a third party he/she should be able to make their own decisions”  because immediately a family matter is taken outside the home it becomes the nation’s affair and this can easily without notice crumble a home in no time, matters of the home are meant to be settled by the husband and wife only no third party place is provided because on marriage the both becomes one in all things and these two should be able to manage a situation no matter how tedious and tasking it may be.
33.   WOLVES IN SHEEP CLOTHING: Many married couples get home and meet another or a whole stranger compared to who they dated and got married to and “the reason of dating being to get to know themselves intimately” was not achieved so this is still another error in marriage. Imagine getting home to discover  you married a thief, prostitute, mentally unstable she/he snores  and you happen to hate snorers  or sleep- talkers  you will fell discourage is easier said than done after saying “ yes I do, in richer, in poorer , in health and sickness”  it’s difficult for the party involved also fake lifestyle put up by their partner’s  just to get their partners approval but on getting to find out that all were just an act, to please her and so the period of dating should correct this error know him/her to her period even if possible when she wears a pant and not her cold and hot period etc.
44.  SLACK IN DUTIES: Like I always say especially on the side of men after marriage they think okay we are now married no need for us going out again even once in a long while or during festive season and on the side of the woman with the intent that am already married so no need to dress to please again to look good and charming this is a common attitude of the black women and later you will still be the one complaining of your partner chasing other ladies? So in essence things done during the period of dating should be continued so as any of the individual not to feel indifferent.

ARTICLE BY: EHIJEH BRIGHT
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