REASONS WHY MARRIED PEOPLE/SPOUSE ALWAYS CHEAT ON EACH OTHER

 REASONS WHY MARRIED PEOPLE/SPOUSE ALWAYS CHEAT ON EACH OTHER

1. LUST: This is one of the basics reasons why people cheat how can a married man for example having a beautiful and well endured wife still be lusting after another woman. Are they not both are they both not having the same body features shapes curve and edges? What is the different?  ” Like a saying will always say a cheater will always cheat” (No matter how clean you bath a pig it will still go back to the muds) so on my own point of view it’s what its inherent in the individual before marriage and like it’s been said charity begins at home same applies here the person involved has being engaging in this act before marriage so it’s the same character he/ she still exhibit in marriage/relationship.

2. TO KEEP UP TO DATE (THE TRENDING): Most persons engage in some fraud less activities because it the up and doing activity in town that is a very bad habit someone once said that before you enter a relationship you should be matured all wise you should be able to define your boundaries, limit, likes, dislike if at this time you are still tossed to and fro here and there I think you should retrace your steps and be a woman and man of your own.

3. LACK (MONEY, CHILD): Some people really don’t intend to cheat but due to lack they find themselves cheating maybe for money and child bearing the latter is common amongst Africans they can’t bear the thought and shame of not bearing children will be tempted to cheat and as they try it out sooner or later it then becomes a habit.

4. POOR SEX LIFE OF THE OTHER PATNER: This is the most important there is no marriage that there will be no sex, sex is very pleasurable and image someone who got married with the hope to have a lot of it but ended up being disappointed because of the inexperience of the other person will definitely look and desire to have a better and satisfied one and this will lead to cheating which was never intended.

5. FRIENDS AND FAMILY: This happens especially when the woman is ill-treated will little or no care and even sex starvation and if this be known to family and friends they may persuade her to cheat even giving her examples of those engaging in the act and the benefit and pointing out to her, her monster at home so if she is tired of bearing she may give up after all to “err is human and to forgive is divine”.

6.LACK OF LOVE AND APPRECIATION :There is a saying that “ appreciation is an  application for more” so no matter how small what  he/she does for you even if it’s  their responsibility always say thank you it make someone  fell  useful else they will fell  they are of no use to you and that you can do without them this  will then put a bridge in their heart . Never go out without kissing or telling your spouse I LOVE YOU EVEN THOUGH THEY KNOW IT ALREADY RE-ECHO IT THIS WILL ALWAYS REMIND THEM OF YOUR LOVE FOR THEM.

ARTICLE BY: EHIJEH BRIGHT

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